Is there a person in your environment, who only thinks of their own importance, who tolerates nobody else and is in love with him-/herself? Someone who thinks they are the greatest? Who ruthlessly takes, whatever they want?
A person who is suspicious and jealous of others and lets their anger, hatred and aggression or – even worse – violence out on you? Who degrades others (or you?), uses and belittles you, so that your self-esteem suffers? Who hurts your feelings? And makes you feel guilty and yet, you feel attracted to them?